It’s almost 5:30AM and I’m currently sitting in the basement with two blankets and a small heater. We’re spending some time with family with that being said our daughter is the same room as us. My mom offered to put her in another room and I said let’s give it a shot with her in our room. Yep – I am regretting this choice. Our routine at home is she goes to bed anywhere between 5 and 7 – it depends on if she take an afternoon nap, how long she takes, and how she is acting in that time frame. There are nights she only gets one 8oz cup but last night she got a 4 oz around 11:30 and I gave her the 8oz cup around 2:30. When I thought she was done with the 8 oz cup she talked to herself for a while and I discovered she was a gassy little thing. Around 5ish she woke up again and began to cry out. I got up to get her pacifier but realized she didn’t finish her cup. I laid back down but between her gassy moments, her fussing off and on, and talking to herself. When we are at home I have been turning down the monitor because I found that she often makes noises but she doesn’t really need anything. Once I have done that I am sleeping a little longer but with her in the room that isn’t the case. I decided to just get up and come downstairs.
Then again I was not sleeping very well on my own. I am super achy and it’s making it hard to sleep. Due to our currently living arrangements (where we are living on a normal basis) we could not get the box frame of the bed we were given up the stairs. This is the downsize of an older house they were not designed for our furniture of today. We had to set the bed up in the large living room but to be honest we didn’t really want the bed because I slept on it for almost a year and it was uncomfortable, loud, and to small for us. We slept on it maybe a few times but we found sleeping in the sun room was easier. I only say all that because being here I am able to sleep on a bed and it’s comfortable. I passed out at 9:30 and it was glorious. Then again I was up since 4:30 due to not having stuff ready for our trip. I was physically and mentally tired.
Then I was woken up by my daughter, shortly afterward my husband came to bed, and I tossed and turned all night. I woke up even when she wasn’t awake and of course I had dry mouth every time I woke up. I am not sure why I’m achy but I believe that is the reason why I couldn’t sleep. I am still pretty tired and I may attempt to sleep in the recliner once I’m done writing and maybe doing a few things that need my attention before the day starts. I am not sure what to do about the achy feeling – I can’ take much and it’s not even my stomach area. My legs and arms are the biggest areas and I wonder if it’s because of blood flow. I know I am going to have another day of being tired if I can’t get some more sleep. I know once I even attempt to sleep I’m going to get a message telling me I left and left our daughter behind. He usually sleep through stuff more than I can.
Here to another day – at least I don’t have the every day demands of home but I am planning on making food while we are here so I have to do some cooking. I did bring a handful of projects to work on but today my mom will be heading to work for a few hours and she is hoping to be off tomorrow. She is willing to take the kids so maybe tomorrow I will be able to sleep in whatever that may look like at this point in my life. Oh and our daughter is being moved to a new room – I will just have to get up and take her the cup but I won’t have to tip-toe around her. I will be able to turn down the monitor so that might help with getting some real sleep.
What do you do when you can’t sleep?
If you dealt with achy feeling during pregnancy what helped?